Monday, 18 February 2008


Some are said that we have to work to success. But the others said that we are fated to be success man. For me, I believe nothing is free in this world. We have a choice of what kind of life we want to have. Of course, every one of us has their own dream to achieve and hopes they can have a nice future. I am also in the same shoes. Unfortunately, sometimes dream just can be dream. Here we go; I would like to talk about my future life plan. Secondly, I will further convince you; life is not really nice as we thought if I took the wrong way. Then, we could have an average life, if it is what we want. Later, everybody has a probability to having a bright future. To talk about these scenarios, learn from other people experience is better than learn from your own experience.

When I was 16, I had read a Professor Dr. Dale Carnegie theory. He is a psychology lecturer and famous writer. The conclusion about his book is; mankind has the natural instinct about having a very bright and nice future. It is normal. However, the only one thing which is causing the mankind loose their true vision is their Life Plan. Some people have very clear plan about their life. But, the others are in contrary. Far worse, there are people who have no Life Plan. I have a Life Plan for me myself. Hopefully, I could achieve my dream. Life Plan is about the management of your time and achieving level at the certain time. As an example, when you are 18, where you want to further your study. When you finish your study, what kind of job prospect you want to involve. The question about when we will get married, have our own house, car and property are also included in Life Plan. For those who are still do not have a Life Plan, you should start to have one. It is important if you are optimist to have a bright future. Life is not easy as we thought.

“We can’t change the wind, but we can adjust the sail”, this epigram are applicable in this situation. If I took the wrong way, there is no way I will have a bright future as I expect. The usual mistake done by me is not focusing in my study. For me, life should be easy and enjoy. Lately, I just realize if I keep cling with this attitude, I will deviance from my true vision. My second mistake is; I always doing everything in last minutes. Even I know it will results of lack of job quality. Besides, bad goal setting is also contribute to my failure before. For me, it is all right as long as I could pass the examination. I never plan to get improving it. The only one of my habits that I still cannot change is; my bad time management. Even, I get the counselling about time management repeatedly from the counsellor before, it is does not help much. English? Yes! That is the subject I hate the most when I was in primary school because for me, learning in Malay is easy and understandable. I do not want to speak and hate writing. When the times pass, I getting realize that if I still do not improve my English, I am going to be nothing. For all I had mention before, I know that I am climbing the Fail Mountain. But, I believe if I stop climbing right now, I still have a chance to climb another mountain which is can give me the guaranty of better life.

I passed my UPSR, PMR and SPM with the average result. I do satisfy with my results. One day, there is something cross in my mind. Am I born just to be an average man? I have average look, money, and religious. I also average in my study. I never get any award for my excellent in my study. I am just an average man! Then, I start to worry. If I just can be average in everything, that is mean I will going to have average life too. Average salary, average house size, average car, average wife, and average finance? Oh no! This is not what I want. I want to get more than that. I am taking a day to make an assessment about me myself. Lastly, I found that, it is because of my attitude, my mentality and my daily life practices are not helping me improving myself. I know I can be more than what I am now. The first reason why I cannot be in a first class in my life is; I am not make my life goal setting run like it should be. Secondly, I just discuss right now, my time management is still bad even now I already passed my ripe age, 18. I cannot make myself disciplinary with the time. I just study when there are homework from the teacher. I just do the house chores if my parent asks. I just write or speak in English if I am force to do so. I never care if my English is still bad or my pronunciation is terrible. For me, life is simple. Even I did not conquering English, I still can survive. My science and my mathematic teacher is the best example, even the ministry had order to the science and mathematic teachers to speak in English in teaching, both of my science and mathematic teacher still speak in Malay. So, I make a conclusion, even speak or not speak in English it is not bringing any different. Does not mean when my teachers speak in English, they will become cleverer than before. That was what I thought. There is no use to cry over the spilt milk. Let yesterday be a history, but today and tomorrow will be new civilization. From now on I have to move forward or else I will just be an average man with my average dream.

I still remember Napoleon Bonaparte said that “A journey of thousand miles, start with the single step”. Now, I am no longer a school student. I am the university student. Life as a university student is totally different with school student. Praise to God, I already found my true purpose of life. I am mature enough to set my goal setting on the par. I am going to be 20 years old man this year. At this age, I probably should not have any problem in managing my time. I do not want to dump my life. There are a hundred of responsible I have to carry on. I should study hard and prepare myself with a useful skill. I want to have a bright life! There is nothing that could make me stop right now. I believe this is a chance by God to bring myself out from the poverty. The time has come, to prove to the world that I am not a loser, I am not incapable. I am a true man who will lead this world to the bright future.

In conclusion, life is life. We can choose our future. Take a right decision will place us at the right future. I am going through a hard life before. I do not want to live in such kind of life anymore. It is so hurt to look as a loser, as a failure, and as an incapable. Then, I also had going through an ordinary life with nobody cares and there is nothing special about you. It is quite comfortable life because I did not burden myself with thinking about what others think about me. It is a simple life. But, it is not what I want. In order to be what I want, of course, I have to sacrifice a lot. I will make sure I will attain my goal; to be a man with a bright future. A man who does not trust himself cannot be trust by anyone else.

Why Is It So Hard To Find a Job for Young Malaysian Graduates?

In fact, Malaysian's education have been a lot of improvement in other types of element such as many kind of institution and programmes that student take. As we all know this institution are separated into two parts: private and public. Both of them have born many graduates. But the question is, are they were equip enough to facing the job world? Many fresh graduates are complaining that they have difficulty to get a job. Are the companies too picky or the problems rely on the graduates?

Malaysian graduates fail get a job because their weakness in English. This is the fact. Almost of this graduate do not have any problem in having speaking publicly. But, what make them 'stuck' when they attending an interview are their 'unfixed' command in English. This reality is supported by Suresh Thiru, vice-president of operations at online recruitment company "The key criteria employers look for in potential hires are a good command of English, a good attitude and a strong work ethic," The fact is, thirty thousand Malaysian graduates only managed to get casual and ordinary work such as cashier and restaurant workers because their poor English proficiently.

Education performance is not the main focus for the employer and they poorly equipped with the skills required by changing market and economy. From the 12 criteria listed by 115 employers surveyed in a study on unemployment conducted by the National Economic Action Council, the top three of soft skills are: good communications, being presentable and having a reasonable grasp of general knowledge. Academic performance just only came eighth. Almost 64% of the employers agree with the motion: education performance is just a package of the student. Sometimes, the job are there, but the graduates are not up to the mark and do not meet the industry's requirement for the technical skills, competence and knowledge of the specific job platform.

At the certain moment, we have to look out for the Attitude, mentality and assumption of the graduate. As an example, they tend to think that if they could score the flying colour result in examination, they might have chance to have a good job. By the meaning of attitude problems is, fail in time management, their laziness in doing any extra exercise, their assumption that their involvement in club or society at their university just a wasting of time and always break a rules. When it is continuously happen, it become of some sort of their habit and after they graduates, they will 'accidentally showing' this attitude. So, no wonder, why should the prospective employers be serious about hiring them.In this new era, the graduates have to alert with any job prospect changing. Now, we are going through the 'Multitasks' era. In other word, the graduate must prepared them self with multiple capability. As an example, eventhough they are come from the engineering field, at least they know about accountancy as well. Besides, they should be something different and not to follow the crowded. Undergraduates themselves need to be aware of it.


notes: This article wrote for my assignment. 

Friday, 15 February 2008


Now, Management and Sceince University (MSU), Shah Alam is my place of study.. I am in the Managemant field.. I will be here for 3 years.. Even at the my early time at here, I'm not really sure with my choice to further my study here, but now, there is no doubted that this is the best place ever and I should be here long time ago..

love you MSU...


The job market is competitive out there. It is even more for the fresh graduates, having to compete with fellow graduates as well as the experienced job seekers. graduates must be eager to learn something new and try things themself before deciding things will work for them or not. the most crucial is they should not complain. These graduates must understand that they might find difficulties finding jobs, but instead of complaining and whining, like a number of job seekers who wrote in the net telling how the job market is not fair, it is better to them if they continues to improve themself. Sometimes, they wrote comments in the net using obscene languages telling how the government is not doing their job and all that stuff. For these people, I am not at all sad if they never get a job.

A thousand miles journey, start with a single step_ English Phylosopher

iF I....

It is said that to be success in life, we have to work hard. Some are said, we are fated to success. So, what is the truth? For me, everyone has their own point of view about the term of SUCCESS. It cannot be explain and elaborate. I believe everyone has a desire to success in their life. That is a one part of life's purpose. I also believe that everyone has their own dream to attain. Me, myself are also in the same company. Having a thousand dreams to accomplish especially about being a true man. Hence, I have to do something. To show to the world, who I am! First, I will elaborate on how and what should I do, in order to set my foot on the success podium. Then, I am going to talk about what happen if I just want to follow the crowded by being an average student and lastly, I will discuss about a 'technique and tactics' of how be a failure student. Let’s find out.

IF I......Want to be an excellent student, I will set my goal to get into the Dean List in this semester with the result 3.50 and above. In other words, pass the exam with the flying colours result. It is said that, the key of success is; the time management. So, if I could manage my time wise, well and properly, that's mean I just owned the key to open the success door. Moreover, I always keep in my head my mother's magic spell "Son! I and your dad are not well educated. But, we just understand one thing; if you study everyday and do not waste your time, you will be a very success person." Hence, to achieving my goal, I have to study everyday. It will make me understand and memorize better. By the way, there is something that blocking my way. That is my weakness in spoken and writing English. There is no way out unless I have to work harder to conquer those English 'stuff'. I believe, if I could communicate with my friend even outside the class in English language, it will help me to improving my spoken skill. Long time ago, I am one of the boy who have a really weak command in English. I also weak in Science and mathematic subject. So, in order to solve this problem, I have to study with my Chinese friend. They are really good in Mathematic and science. The problem with this guy is they have a very terrible Malay language. So, I have no choice except has to start to speak in English because that is only the way out for my problem. Besides, I have to manure myself and make comfort to enjoy writing in English. Creating by my own self the English environment will help me to be on the top.

However, IF I.... follow the crowded by come out with the average result is all right to me. Actually, to have a result around 3.00 in CGPA is also not an easy work. Maybe I should start with not to set my goal to high because there is no guarantee I could attain it. Sometimes, I think better to set my goal to get only around 3.00 in first semester until the third semester. It is good enough to me, as long as I did not receiving the 'Love Letter' from the administration informing me about the blockage of my study loan. Having 3.00 in CGPA bring the meaning that I am in the safe territory and free from study loan blockage. Furthermore, having a compact and strict time management is really boring. Sometimes, it is good to spend much more time to do whatever I want without to put it in my daily schedule. Based on my experience, if I am going to study last minute, it is still safe enough. But, in the same time, I will keep alert because i do not want it becomes too late to study. Follow the mood of study makes me feel much more relax. If I am in the mood, I will spend a few hours to dive into the book. But, if it was on contrary mood, I will finish my time by just read a short note. There is nothing to worry if my English is not so good because I just need to look cool speaking English when I am going to attend the interview. There is still a plenty of time to me. So, it is enough if I just keep speaking English in the classroom only. One more things, is about writing. Yes! I could write in English if I am forcing to do so. Just take easy. It is nothing to worry.

Lastly, IF I... want to be a student in the failure quote, it could be 'fun' because I have to start thinking about how to explain to my parent about this. Having a result of 2.70 and above in CGPA is not in very stable stage. I have to use a very hard technique and tactics to accomplish my mission to jump in this area. To reach at this territory, of course, I have to delete the word "GOAL SETTING" from my mind and have to ban the word "GOOD TIME MANAGEMENT" from walking into my head. Please! I do not want to burden my brain with all those complicated term. Perhaps, by make a friend with STUDY LAST MINUTE keyword is best option in my study daily life. Start to speak and write in English? That should be the most ridiculous thing ever! Some kind of extra work should not be in my schedule.In conclusion, life can not be expected about what will happen next. But, everything is about our self. If we are going to choose a bright life, we have pay for it by study hard and take a wise step. Otherwise, if we tend to think that this life is all about having fun and enjoys, we have to pay for it with going through a hard life in the next day. For me, I do not want to be a failure student. It is so hurt to be look as failure, incapable and loser. It is rely on our hand. What kind of life we want to choose. "A man who does not trust himself can never really trust anyone else".

IF I.....

Wednesday, 13 February 2008

tHe +RouBle w!F GuYs!!!

If you TREAT him nicely, he says you are IN LOVE with him;
If you don't, he says you are PROUD.
If you DRESS nicely, he says you are trying to LURE him;
If you don't, he says you are from KAMPUNG.
If you ARGUE with him, he says you are STUBBORN.
If you keep QUIET, he says you have no BRAINS.
If you are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;
If he's SMARTER than you, he is GREAT.
If you don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS you;
If you Love him, he will try to LEAVE you. (very true huh?)

If you don't make love with him. he says you don't Love him;
If you do!! He says you are CHEAP.
If you tell him your PROBLEM, he says you are TROUBLESOME;
If you don't, he says that you don't TRUST him.
If you SCOLD him, you are like a NANNY to him;
If he SCOLDS you, it is because he CARES for you.
If you BREAK your PROMISE, you Cannot be TRUSTED;
If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.
If you SMOKES, you are BAD girl;
If he SMOKES, he is a GENTLEMEN.
If you does WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK;
If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.
If you HURT him, you are CRUEL;
if he HURTS you, you are too SENSITIVE!! & sooo hard to please!!!!!

If you sends this to guys, they will swear that it's not true....... but if you doesn't, they say you are selfish....

Tuesday, 12 February 2008

OncE you Fall iN loVe

  • When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around to find them. At that moment, you are in love

    Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back, to let you know of their safe arrival, your phone is quiet. You are desperately waiting for the call! At that moment, you are in love.

    If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from that special someone than many other long e-mails, you are in love.

    When you can't bring yourself to erase all the messages in your answering machine or hand phone because of one message from that special someone, you are in love.
    When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would not hesitate to think of that special someone. Then, you are in love.

    You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend", but you realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that moment, you are in love.

    While you are reading this page, if someone appears in your mind, you’re in love..

21 Reasons Why best Friends are Better Than Boyfriend/Girlfriend

1.You don't have to call them every day, just to let them know you're not fighting ...true kan..

2.You don't have an anniversary-you just sort of "became" best friends. we dun have one but we know that

3.When someone calls your girlfriend/boyfriend your "partner" it makes you think of marriage. When they call your best friend your partner, it's more like cops. feel so safe!

4.You never have to touch your best friend whe it's hot outside, but you can still huddle close when it's freezing. sooo true!

5.Your parents usually like your best friend. yup yup!

6.Your best friend doesn't care if you get fat, you're ugly, or if you get a bad haircut. hehe..if u mind, than u r not mine

7.You don't have to get jealous of "girls only" night or "guys only" night -- You're part of it! yaahhh!! rock on!

8.You can laugh at your best friend with no consequences. that all da time

9.You can burp/fart in front of your best friend on any occasion. always!!

10.You can plan on still having a relationship with your best friend in 20 years. sure we will!

11.Never in your life will you need "space" from your best friend. a ah..btol!

12.Your best friend won't be mad if you want some time alone, and will only ask you "what's wrong?" once. true heart feeling aite!

13.Your best friend is someone you get in trouble with; your boyfriend/girlfriend is someone you get in trouble with if you get in trouble. need u now!!

14.You don't have to get dressed up to go anywhere with your best friend. heeh..true again kan..ingat tak?

15.You're allowed to have multiple best friends. yup yup!

16.No one ever spreads rumors or talks about you and your best friend's relationship. sumtimes they do but wut da heck! i love u too!

17.Borrowing any amount of money from your best friend is okay, no questions asked. hehe..

18.Your best friend will never refer to you as "the ball and chain," "the old lady/man," or "the whip." elehhh always je kena camtu

19.No one is ever trying to fix you up on blind dates for a new best friend. a ah

20.It doesn't matter what your "other" friends think about your best friend. yes! definitely! i know u best!

21. Your best friend is the first person you call when you get a new boy friend / girl friend, and when you break up with them. hehehehe...always alwayssss


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